"Dear children! In this time of grace, pray with me for the good to win in you and around you. In a special way, little children, pray united with Jesus on His Way of the Cross. Into your prayers put this humanity which wanders without God and without His love. Be prayer, be light, and be witnesses to all those whom you meet, little children, so that the merciful God may have mercy toward you. Thank you for having responded to my call."
I Did Not Believe...
By Fr. Eugenio La Barbera
This testimony is part of a homily given at Medjugorje in
January 2008, by Fr. Eugenio La Barbera.
Every time I come to Medjugorje, I feel it is my duty to
give my testimony about the way Our Lady called me to
form a monastic community in Brazil. Now we have three
monasteries in Brazil.
I did not believe in Medjugorje, and in
May 1987, I was in a deep existential crisis
when a priest, Don Valdemaro Boggiano
Pico, a dear friend of mine, kind of forced
me to come to Medjugorje. And so I came
here with two friends of mine. They
believed in these apparitions. I did not...
not at all.
When we arrived in Medjugorje, it was
raining, and there should have been an
apparition to Ivan, but on that day they
told us - we had just arrived and were
still on the coach - that the apparition was
only for Ivan's prayer group and so we
were excluded. All the people on the coach
became very sad because they could not
be there. On the contrary, I became very
happy and started making fun of everybody saying, "You
see, you came here and Our Lady does not even want you!"
At that time there were no hotels, no shops, nothing. We
were staying in the house of some local people. I remember
that we had to keep the window closed because downstairs
there were the stables and the smell rose up... and we kept
the door open and the door was opening up on Krizevac.
At a certain point, one of my friends - we were lodged all
in this same room - said to me, "Eugenio, shall we go and
pray and make the Stations of the Cross?" I replied "What
Stations of the Cross? It's raining, and in any case, Our Lady
said that we cannot go up there because there is the prayer
group up on the mountain. What are we going to do up
there? Rest assured, Our Lady is not here!"
Later on, our hosts brought us a watery soup. I don't know
what it was, and while we were eating my other friend
said to me, "Look, Eugenio, there is a star on the cross on
Krizevac; you see, that's the sign that you wanted; Our
Lady is calling us." But like a good philosopher and with
an iron logic, I replied, "Dear friend, a star does not indicate
Our Lady's presence; there are so many stars in the sky!"
He became offended and so I said, "All right, you want to go
and make the Stations of the Cross, let's go!" Inside myself
I was thinking, "Tonight I will make them die, I will preach
for such a long time, each preaching longer than the last
one!" And so I started.
Fr. Eugenio
Everybody was kneeling down - I was standing - and I
started to preach for quite a long time... "Your knees will
bleed tonight." But then, at a certain point, I realized that
my anorak [jacket] was dry; it was raining, and so I was
overcome by a terrible fear; I didn't know anything. Before, I
thought I knew theology, I thought I knew everything, and
now I was confronted with a phenomenon that I could not
control. So I started touching the soil and obviously it was
wet because it was raining, and so at a certain point I said
to my friends, "Well, let's go to the next Station." I touched
them. They were wet. I touched my anorak - it was dry!
I remember that it was a very quick Via Crucis [Way of
the Cross], because I was scared, and when we arrived
on Krizevac, from that one star many circles of stars were
formed, and where we stood, it had stopped raining; but
outside this circle it was still raining. I had no
courage to say anything to them, and they did
not say anything to me. So I said, "Well, let's
pray silently."
I remember that on that night I unburdened
all my bitterness to Our Lady: I told Her, "Look,
I don't know if you exist, if you are appearing
here, but I want to tell you something: first
of all that I am not just a good priest, I am
an excellent priest, because I say the Rosary,
because I read my Breviary, because I listen to
confessions." I told Her all the good things I
was doing, but I did not tell Her my sins, only
the good things! I said to Our Lady, "And what
has been my reward? Listen, my father died
of bone cancer, my brother's business partner
is in jail, my brother is in jail and I am here...
and in my community they think badly of
me." What can I say? I gave vent to everything I had inside
my heart, and I said, "Well, if you give everybody signs, you
could give one to Fr. Eugenio, a sign of your presence."
The next day, this friend of mine, Don Valdemaro Boggiano
Pico, who at the time was writing a book on Medjugorje,
asked me to lead the Rosary on the Hill of Apparitions, so
we went up the hill, we said the Rosary, and then I sat there.
Once there were no plaques commemorating the mysteries
of the Rosary, there was nothing, but the faithful would put
small wooden crosses there as a sign of their faith. I was
sitting there, thinking of nothing, just looking down the hill
when, at a certain point, a man approached. This gentleman,
that I did not know, very well dressed, with a tie, asked me,
"Are you Fr. Eugenio La Barbera?" Name and surname!
Because we were in a communist country at that time in
1987, I thought he was a guard and that he had come to take
me to jail, and so I said to myself, "At least my brother is in
an Italian jail, I'll end up in a communist jail!" So I replied,
"Yes, it's me."
"I have something to tell you," he replied, "regarding the
questions that you asked Our Lady last night on Krizevac.
Do you want to hear it?" And I realized that it is not only
women who are curious, but men too, because I was curious
to know. Even worse, I looked around me to see that nobody
was listening and then I said to the man, "You can tell me."
He said, "First of all, Our Lady wants you to know that you
are a good priest, an excellent priest." (At that moment I felt
so ashamed!) "Your father is in Paradise with your mother,
and your brother will come out of prison very soon, but
because you do not believe, Our Lady will give you a sign
before you leave Medjugorje."
I remember that I ran away from that place, I did not even
let him finish speaking, and I ran down the hill. There I met
Don Valdemaro Boggiano Pico and I said to him, "I want
to go to confession because I think I am going to die." And
I made a General Confession of my whole life, and poor
Don Valdemaro, he was telling me, "No, no, you did not
believe and She wanted to give you a sign." "Yes, yes," I
said, "look, I have had enough signs." And I told him about
my dry anorak. "Listen, I believe you, I believe, but another
sign and I will die of a heart attack. Therefore I believe, full
stop."
A pilgrim group arrived from Emilia Romagna and did
not have a priest, so I was asked to help them with the
Stations of the Cross. I remember that I prepared myself
well and when they arrived, we introduced ourselves and
then we went to make the Stations of the Cross. At the
Third Station, when Jesus falls for the first time, a young
man between 18 and 20 years of age started to cry, and he
cried so loud, so loud, and I could not speak because all the
pilgrims were looking at him. On the other hand, I did not
have the courage to tell him to stop because, I said to myself,
it is possible that Our Lady could appear and I did not want
Her to appear to me and so even that time the Via Crucis
was very quick.
When we arrived on Krizevac, I stopped speaking and this
young man stopped crying, and I became so exasperated
because now he could have cried as much as he liked, and
instead he had stopped! But this young man came near me
and said, "Father, I am very sorry but something happened
to me." "What happened? It's true
that I am a good preacher, but not
so good that you have to cry so
much!" He said, "Look, I have seen
all my sins, like in a film, and I cried
and repented and more sins were
coming up and I cried and repented
and I could see more sins..."
As a priest, I was thinking, "How
many sins has he got? From the
Third to the Fifteenth Station!" Then
he said, "When you stopped talking,
I heard a very clear voice saying to me, ‘Your sins are
forgiven, but you need the forgiveness of the Church. Go
and confess your sins to Fr. Eugenio', and here I am, I want
to go to Confession." And so I listened to his confession…
At a certain point, this young man rolled up his sleeves
and his arms were all black. He was a drug addict. Then he
took some vials that he had in his pocket and broke them
on the mountain stones and so I said to him, "Listen, my
young man, it is true that Our Lady blessed you. It is true
that your sins are forgiven, but you are an addict. You inject
yourself with this drug. You cannot stop from one moment
to the next."
Third Station on Mt. Krizevac
Opening his arms, he said to me, "Fr. Eugenio, I have been
healed, I am that sign that Our Lady promised to give you
before you left Medjugorje..."
And from that year, I have always come to Medjugorje to
thank Our Lady.
Years later, several years later, again here in Medjugorje,
Our Lady called me through Vicka the visionary to form a
religious community. I did not want to, and I was very rude
with Vicka. With a certain irony I said to her, "Our Lady told
you so? Don't tell me, tell Our Lady to which Swiss bank I
should go to get the money!" A lot of money was needed
to form a congregation, and I remember that Vicka, always
smiling, didn't get offended. She said me, "Okay, I will ask
Her." "Okay, ask Her!" I replied.
The next day, I was passing where Vicka used to give her
talk - I don't know if she still does it - but she was speaking
in front of her grandmother's house. I passed in front of her
and she called me, "Our Lady said that the inheritance that
you have received from your family is not yours; it belongs
to God. So Our Lady said spend your inheritance and
then She will help you." I wasn't totally convinced of this,
because Medjugorje had not been recognized, and so I went
to see the Pope [now St. John Paul II] and I explained to him,
"Your Holiness, that's what happened, you know... I am a
missionary, I live in Brazil, I have so many things to do..."
(At that time I was the director of the Charismatic Renewal.)
The Pope said to me, "Okay, the fact that the
apparitions have not been recognized yet does not
mean that you cannot form a congregation." And so
we went ahead, and today we are a monastery "sui
juris", that is a monastery officially recognized by
the Church, and I am the Abbot. And so let's thank
the Lord because, you see, with so many signs, so
many things... the Church tells us that when we
search for Truth, then the Lord will make us realize
that there is nothing that could prevent God's will
to be realized in everything.
I remember that when the constitution was
approved (naturally it was sent to the Congregation for
Religious Orders) - I don't know why, but our constitution
ended up on Cardinal Ratzinger's desk and he stamped
it "Approved". I still remember that the chancellor of my
diocese said to me: "Look, either Cardinal Ratzinger was
drunk, and I don't think so, or he did not read it, because
we are a Third World country - Brazil... or Our Lady closed
both his eyes, because your community has been approved."
And so, with you, I praise the Lord. Let's thank the Lord!
And I thank Our Lady who called me to this new mission.
Today we have three monasteries in Brazil and we live a
Benedictine-Marian spirituality, according to all Our Lady
asked us to do and to put into practice. Amen.
The Medjugorje Message, UK, February 2008 issue